Realistic Self-Care Menu complete therapy resource page

Teen-Focused Resources · TE-09

Realistic Self-Care Menu

Choose replenishing or protective actions that fit available time, energy, access, money, and support.

Clinician-created · specialist review required
Client group: Teens10-20 minutesActivityAdult professional use

For clinician-facilitated use

This is a professional resource, not a child-facing online service. A licensed clinician or other qualified adult must determine suitability, explain and adapt the activity, and supervise its use. Do not direct a child to access this webpage independently or enter client information.

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The full-resolution WebP includes print-safe margins and should be downloaded by an adult professional. Read the guidance below before using the page.

How to use it

  1. Look across the menu for options that fit your energy, access, time, and preferences.
  2. Choose one action, change an option, add your own, or pass.
  3. Include practical needs, boundaries, connection, sensory needs, rest, and no-cost choices.
  4. Seek additional support when self-care cannot address an unsafe condition or unmet basic need.

Reflection prompts

  • Which options feel realistic rather than expected?
  • What barriers make care harder to access?
  • What needs action from another person, service, or system?

Facilitator guidance

Frame self-care as one possible support, not a treatment, responsibility to cope with harm, or replacement for safety, healthcare, accommodation, or material resources.

Adaptations & accessibility

  • Create low-energy, no-cost, private, social, and sensory-specific menus.
  • Replace movement or sensory items with accessible equivalents.
  • Include asking for help and reducing demands as valid options.

Professional-use review

Standard licensed-clinician, accessibility, and safeguarding review required before use.

This clinician-created resource is published for professional evaluation. Before client use, the treating clinician or other qualified adult must determine whether it is appropriate and complete every specialist, accessibility, safeguarding, and local-policy review named above. Publication does not represent individualized clinical approval.